Saturday, December 27, 2008

Lessons Learned from a Homemade Christmas

My family has always made a big deal out of holiday feasts. If you haven't noticed we like food. :) Even though we like to eat as healthy and as natural as possible we have always used canned or bagged products for certain recipes. For example the cream of mushroom soup in our green bean casserole has traditionally been Campbell’s.

After I discovered that a wonderful thing like marshmallows could be made at home and the quality was far greater than anything you could purchase at the store, I began to take more advantage of my kitchen. I have been making all sorts of things at home with much less effort then I ever thought possible. This year I decided to make everything from scratch. The only thing I did not do was grow my own ingredients or lay my own eggs ... oh, and I did not toast my own onion toppers for the casserole ... but I'm sure I can learn how to do that for next year.


The meal was AMAZING!! At least I thought it was. There was a bit of a salt issue with the turkey. Steve and Nathan both still like the texture of the Campbell’s mushroom soup better but they agree that the taste of mine was good. I left the turkey up to mom this year. She did such a great job on her smoked Thanksgiving turkey that I wanted to let her repeat it. This time she decided to do a salt brine and then smoke the bird. Having never done this before we had no idea how salty the final product would be. She followed a recipe and we learned that for us cutting the amount of salt in half would’ve been just fine. Lesson Learned. Still tasted good though.

I learned that jellied cranberry sauce turns out perfect even if you add the sugar at the wrong time. I learned that making soup is time consuming but tastes wonderful and frozen mushrooms create a lot of liquid. Dinner rolls are super easy. Did you know that bread stuffing can be made with moist bread and not dried bread crumbs? I didn't know that. I was running out of time for our 6 pm dinner schedule and realized I had forgotten to dry the bread crumbs, following my mother's advice I just added less liquid and it was great! White mashed potatoes are just buttery goodness; I can't really say more than that. Freshly ground nutmeg and cinnamon mixed in mashed sweet potatoes baked with homemade marshmallows on top can be eaten just by themselves as a delicious dessert. I do have to say that my pumpkin pie was not a perfect 10 like the one I made for Thanksgiving however, it would still get a score of about 8. If you love whipped topping you have got to make it yourself at least once in your life. It is so cool! It only takes about 3 minutes and it looks like flawless white puffy clouds ... and the taste ... oh ... you just have to make it yourself to know.


There are two reasons this Christmas dinner was wonderful. One is the fun I had preparing it along with the knowledge and experience I gained while in the kitchen for 6 + hours. And the second is the fact that everything I prepared was Jacob friendly. I made sure that the ingredients I chose to use were all natural and because I made everything myself, there was no need for extra chemicals and preservatives like the ones found in store bought foods.

As my time management skills improve I will begin to incorporate more homemade cooking into our daily lives and not just on holidays.

I hope everyone had as wonderful a Christmas as we did!

Cosmic Brownie Points

Have you ever had a person in your life that has the ability to evoke uncontrollable emotions within you? A person whose very existence irritates you? The mere site of that person makes you wish that your heart would stop beating just so you wouldn't have to face hearing them speak again. An accidental thought about that person makes your skin crawl so much that you feel the need to bathe in order to wash away the disgust. A person who no matter how harshly you treat them, or how brutally honest you are with your feelings about them … or, no matter how many times you run screaming bloody murder when you see them approaching … they just won’t go away. They just don’t get it or they just don’t care.

Unfortunately I have people in my life that evoke those types of harsh, extremely powerful emotions. I am doing everything in my power to control and release those feelings in a positive way, but it is painfully hard. At times I think a wonderful release from these people would be to watch them spontaneously vaporize into a pile of ash just like in the old cartoons. They are in the middle of speaking and *poof* all that is left is a grey pile of ash with a set of curious blinking cartoon eyes on top, a janitor with a broom and dust pan walk in from stage left sweep up the pile and then exit stage right. I would then smile and go about my day happily. You might be thinking “that is awful, how can you wish someone to be vaporized?” It is easy, they are irritating and annoying, my life would be a lot less stressful if they weren’t a part of it and I am in a position that I can’t remove them or myself quickly enough … so cartoon style vaporization is a viable option.

I am a believer that we invite things into our lives and we do have a certain level of control. That being said I am fully aware that the people that cause me this grief are in my life because I allow them to be. I will say though that I did not invite them to be who they are. They did that themselves. There are bound to be some cosmic brownie points awarded to me for my effort to calmly deal with this daily torture. I just know in my heart that at some point either in this life or the next I will be rewarded. I have to believe this or I would go insane.

For those of you who are suffering with a similar type of “person” I am truly sorry. I feel your pain and misery. Know that you are not alone. During times that you are forced to deal with your “person” take a moment to think of all the victims like you in the world that are dealing with a far more irritating “person” and be thankful your's isn’t that bad. It might actually help you focus on staying calm and getting through it. Running and screaming in the opposite direction might be effective also, it didn’t work for me but it is worth a shot.

For those of you who do not have a “person” please pray for us!

Tuesday, December 16, 2008

I am so happy and grateful that I can do dishes.

In order to follow along with my goal of being happy and grateful for the things I have I am going to explain why I am happy and grateful that I can do dishes.

I have the physical ability to stand at the sink and wash dishes. I have a house with a sink and clean hot running water to wash them in. I have detergent that kills germs so I can eat off clean dishes after I hand wash them without getting sick. I have a dishwasher that is leaking and causing water damage to the sub floor which has forced me to find great joy in a job well done as I stand in front of my sink staring at all the beautifully hand washed dishes. I am also happy and grateful that I have multiple people in my home that enjoy using several extra dishes every day, thus multiplying my dish washing joy.

According to my landlord sometime after the new year I will have new reasons to be happy and grateful for a functioning dishwasher. I am happy and grateful that I have that joy to look forward to.

Tuesday, December 9, 2008

It's Beginning to Look Alot Like Christmas!

OK so this is technically the second snow of the season ... but the first one was just flurries so it doesn't count.

At the beginning of each season I think to myself "Oh I love this time of year!" and then by the end of that season I am so thankful the next one has begun.

Well I am thinking that again right now. Oh, I love this time of year! The fresh snow that hasn't been touched and gives everything a flawless coating of white perfection is like looking at a priceless painting. It is so relaxing to snuggle on the sofa under a comfy blanket, sipping hot cocoa starring at the falling snow through a large picture window while the lights of the tree reflect in the glass. After the snow has piled up sufficiently and you’re a wee bit wired from the caffeine in the cocoa, getting all bundled up and making your mark in that once perfectly flawless blanket of white in the yard is just plain fun.

Life is full of struggles for many right now and I hope that everyday those of you who are suffering can find happiness in something. Having joy for even just a fraction of a moment as you count the points of a snowflake that landed on your window is a step in the right direction.

The entire Lewis Family wishes everyone a safe and happy Christmas Season!

Thursday, December 4, 2008

Reason #101 Why I love the Winter Holidays – LEFTOVERS

This Thanksgiving we spent with Steve’s family at his parent’s house. It was great to see everyone and watch the kids play. I did make the homemade marshmallows for the candied yams and they were delicious again. My only regret was that I didn’t use more of them. “Tom” the turkey was juicy and perfectly browned. Trina, our niece-in-law (please forgive me if I misspelled your name) made wonderful little spinach stuffing balls. We all over indulged ourselves as tradition dictates that we should. Being one who loves photos I of course documented the meal with my camera as I do every year.

Jacob decided he wanted to work off some of the calories from dinner and jumped on the stationary bike for a while.



It is inevitable that at some point Steve will be in front of a computer with his parents.


My mom stayed home and smoked a turkey using the outdoor grill in a true Kansas City fashion. It turned out awesome. She was proud of herself and we were pleased to return home from Steve’s parents with all of our leftovers and add them to hers.

We are in leftover heaven. In order to preserve the culinary delights that came from this Thanksgiving holiday we have carefully prepared and frozen several stocks and packets of meat for future meals.

A few nights after the holiday my mother took my made-from-scratch bread stuffing and combined some of her smoked turkey for our dinner that night. She added a few more spices and some stock to liven things up a bit. It was fantastic and super simple because it was from leftovers.


I think that one of my new years resolutions this year will be to prepare more holiday style meals during non holiday times. There are 365 days in each year, why should we only eat well for 30 or so of them.

I hope everyone had a Great Thanksgiving!! I’m excited to start preparing for Christmas!!

Wednesday, November 26, 2008

Ping Pong ... I can play Ping Pong!

Oh the joys of a new ping pong table, or should I say table tennis table. It took only an hour or so to set up but the hours we have and will spend enjoying it are to numerous to count. We have already shared our new toy with friends and plan to do so again very soon.

I had no idea that Steve knew so much about this misunderstood sport of ping pong. He really is a font of knowledge. Even after 11 years of marriage I still learn things about him.

Jacob and I have both had our first formal lessons from our resident p-pong master and I have to say we are both gifted. :) HAHAHA

Below are images of the "The P-Pong Master" and "Little P-Pong".


I would recommend to anyone that has ever thought about getting a ping-pong table ... stop thinking about it and go get one!

We are planning a tournament night soon ... so get your game face on!!

Tuesday, November 18, 2008

I Am So Happy and Grateful Now That ...

A lot of you know that about 3 years ago I watched the DVD "The Secret". I have been able to maintain a very good grasp of its teachings and implement them into my everyday existence. However, just as so many others I suffer from a few not so rare conditions that I call NegativeFamilyMemberitis, ToxicFrienditis and BumsThatEmptyYourWallet Syndrom. The BTEYW Syndrome can be a combined with either of the other two conditions. These are all non-fatal conditions but they create a very unhealthy unhappy life for the victim that leaves them untreated.


In today's world it is so easy for these conditions to attack someone you know and then by association you become the victim. Physically, financially and emotional being drained by those around you can quickly turn your positive outlook and your positive efforts to very negative and bleak.


In an effort to remind myself that the only things I can change are myself and how I allow these conditions to affect my life I re watched "The Secret" this afternoon. In the DVD one of the fellows suggests writing a list of all the things that make us happy and that we are grateful for. Hence the title of the blog. For those of you who have not seen "The Secret" some of the things on this list may not be accurate right in this moment, but will be happening in the near future. That is the whole point of positive thinking and visualization ... to feel as if certain things are already true and to actually believe they are. So here is my list so far.


I Am So Happy and Grateful Now That ...

-Steve and I have a combined income of $200,000.00 gross per year.
-We have our dream home, huge comerical grade stainless steel kitchen, in-home theater with stadium style personal lounger setting for 15 adults and oversized beanbag seating for unlimited kids, enough rooms for all of our extended family and friends to visit at anytime, and a master bedroom suite would that would make even the most elite spa wish it were as nice.
-My mother owns her own home.
-My brother is responsible for himself
-I am 165lbs and a size 10-12.
-I have thick hair.
-Steve gets to play golf more then 3 times a week and is preparing for PGA Q-School.
-Steve wears a 34x30 pant
-I have my own craft room that is totally customized.
-Steve and I both have new cars
(those things will happen)

-I get to stay home and raise my child
-All of our bills are paid and we can still go out to eat if we wanted to
-I have a husband who lets me dream big and believes I will achieve every one of them
-My son is happy and healthy
-Jacob has grandparents that love and adore him
-We are able to afford any activities that Jacob wants to be involved in ... such as gymnastics and karate
-I am being a patient teacher for Jacob while we homeschool each other.
-I have friends who are brilliant that I can learn from.
-We are going on a family vacation to Disney World in less then 6 months.
-I own a successful business that keeps growing.
-I learned how to make amazing marshmallows at home.
-I have a fast internet connection.
-I am in a healthy happy relationship
-We have Heavenly Parents who have a plan for us


I'm sure I could go into more detail on all of these things and many more but I will spare you the time to read all that.


I just needed to put myself back on the right line of thinking again. I can not change how the people or the world around me act no matter how hard I try, but I can change me. That means a lot more than just my mental or physical body. When a family member won't go away ... I can change where I live (and not tell them). If that same family member or another keeps asking for money...Thinking in a positive helpful way knowing I can only affect change in myself. I can't make them stop asking ... I can change how much money I make so I can continue to help them. If a friend is causing undue stress or has a negative influence on my decision making ability ...I can change who I associate with. And finally I can change how I respond to others actions and the events of the world around me. The more I can find the positive in every situation and truly believe that I am deserving of achieving my dreams I will find myself surrounded with the people and things that make me most happy. Every thing else will disappear. No more non-fatal conditions.

I am so happy and grateful now that I have taking the time to start my list. :)